I adopted my son when he was just 6 months old, from a family member on my ex husbands side of family. We have an open adoption agreement so he knows this woman is part of his family but he doesn't know she's his birth mom and she passed away today and I'm not sure what to do. Do I tell him or wait for the adoption talk ill have with him when he's ready . He's darker skin color also but has never asked why. I'm raising him not to see that in people.